being conflict free does not immediately mean you will not have any more challenges in life

challenges will stilll exist, you may even get into arguments quite regularly, but the way you handle those arguments or how they actually affect you internally may change

you may start to feel that they do not affect you the way they used to, that you might feel like even though you are externally seemingly in something that may be considered a conflict, within you there is a sense of peace, calm and clarity

this is all about meeting what is within you. when you are able to meet yourself and everything that may cause any kind of turmoil or pain within you, when you fully meet all of that, then you will start to experience a greater sense of flow in your life

on the outside you may still be getting into challenging situations but you will handle them differently. even if na situation may not go in your favour, the way you process that situation will be different, because you have met everything inside you that may have made you feel like you would suffer in these situations

this may take some time before this starts to actually be your experience, since it is a constant process of consistently checking in with yourself, especially in situations that may make you feel uncomfortable

allowing your self to be with whatever may come up in these uncomfortable situations, meeting it with love and compassion, and even if you are not okay with whatever is coming up in these situations, that you can be okay with not being okay with it

eventually the sensations you feel within yourself, the more you can just be with them, they will start to loosen their grip. Again this may take time, though for some of you this may happen very quickly too, it will just depend on each of us, how easily or quickly we are able to process our internal worlds

how long this takes doe not matter, this is not a race, it is just about deciding to go through this with yourself, so that you may start to feel more ease in your life, a sensation of feeling at peace, calm and clear within yourself irrelevant of what outer turbulences may and come and go


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